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My body shook as the nurse whispered, “Stay with me.”
Shame burned hotter than the pain.
No one had warned me it could be like this.
Not the movies. Not sex ed. Not even my friends.
By the time I saw the blood-soaked sheets, I knew something was terribly

I lay under the harsh fluorescent lights, humiliated and terrified, wondering what I’d done wrong. The truth was brutal: I hadn’t done anything “wrong.” I’d simply been left unprepared. No one had told me that rough or poorly lubricated first-time sex could cause serious tearing, that heavy bleeding wasn’t “normal,” or that it was okay to stop the moment I felt fear instead of pleasure.

As doctors finally stabilized me, I realized the real injury started long before that night. It began in classrooms that skipped over consent, anatomy, arousal, and pain; in whispered conversations that treated “first time” like a punchline or a milestone, not a vulnerable moment. I don’t share this to scare anyone away from sex, but to demand better. We deserve honest education, partners who listen, and the power to say, “Something feels wrong, and I’m stopping now.”