While parents should offer guidance, this phrase often signals an unwillingness to respect the child’s perspective or individuality. Used repeatedly, it silences the child’s inner voice and trains them to rely on others for direction. This disempowers children and conditions them to ignore their own instincts. As adults, they may struggle to trust their gut feelings or make independent choices. The phrase can also fuel anxiety, as it reinforces the idea that mistakes are unacceptable and that personal judgment is flawed. Tr
ue support involves collaboration, not control. Dismissing a child’s input with “I know what’s best” teaches compliance, not confidence.
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