Why we help waiters: The psychology behind a simple act of kindness

If you spend enough time in restaurants, you’ll probably notice that when things get busy, there appears a guest who gathers the empty plates from the table even before the before the waiter reaches it. Or, maybe you are that person.

If you’ve witnesses such situations, or you’ve found in one yourself, remember that helping the waiters isn’t just a simple act of kindness. In fact, according to psychology, there is a reason behind this gesture and that kind of behavior.

Most people who do this aren’t trying to impress anyone. It can be that they once worked in restaurants themselves and remember what it feels like to push through a long shift with a tired back and a smile. Others simply pay attention to their surroundings. They notice when someone is struggling, even a little, and they step in without thinking twice. Continue reading…