What Not to Say at a Funeral: 4 Phrases That Hurt More Than Help November 12, 2025 by emma warm hug. A soft hand on a shoulder. A gentle, “I’m here.” Whether you’re comforting a friend, a neighbor, or even a distant cousin, choose your words with compassion. Because in the end, how we show up for one another—especially in times of sorrow—is what truly defines us. ←PreviousNext→