What Not to Say at a Funeral: 4 Phrases That Hurt More Than Help

In times like these, the words we choose carry incredible weight. A simple phrase, said too quickly or without careful thought, can unintentionally wound someone already carrying a heavy emotional burden.

Whether you’re attending the funeral of a close friend, a family member, or even an acquaintance, your presence matters—but so do your words.

And unfortunately, even well-meaning comments can come off as dismissive or hurtful during times of loss.

If you’ve ever wondered what to say—or what not to say—at a funeral, you’re not alone. Many of us were never taught funeral etiquette or how to properly offer condolences.

Here are four common phrases to avoid, along with more compassionate alternatives that truly support those who are grieving.

1. “They’re in a better place now.”

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