In these moments, curiosity — not confusion — should lead the way.
1. Ask calmly and directly
There’s power in asking:
“Why did you do that?”
“Is that supposed to mean something?”
2. Read the room
Does his body language match the gesture? Is he smiling respectfully, or does he seem smug or secretive? Does his tone shift when you ask about it?
3. Trust your gut
No one knows better than you when something feels “off.” You’ve lived enough life to know when to lean in — and when to walk away.
Your Boundaries Are Yours to Set
For many women, especially those over 60, this stage of life is about reclaiming your joy, your time, and your voice. Maybe you’ve raised children, supported a spouse, or cared for others most of your life.
Now is your time.
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