By the time I reached baggage claim, the guilt had shifted into reflection. She hadn’t asked for pity—only space. Just a few inches. And I hadn’t given it. Not because I couldn’t, but because I hadn’t thought to. Somewhere along the way, I’d normalized prioritizing myself.
Empathy doesn’t always need fanfare. Sometimes it’s found in the smallest actions—the ones that cost nothing but attention. Offering a smile to a stranger. Holding a door a moment longer. Choosing patience instead of frustration. These quiet gestures shape the world more than grand proclamations ever could.
Since then, I try to act differently. I check before reclining. I help with overhead bags. When delays happen, I smile instead of sighing. I meet people’s eyes—flight attendants, strangers, anyone I pass. I’ve learned that kindness isn’t about gestures that make headlines. It’s about presence.
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