At first, I thought their disagreements were harmless. But soon, every small difference became a battle — from how to feed the baby to how long he should sleep.
When my mother insisted on her old-fashioned ways, Anita resisted. My mother would then accuse her of disrespect, sometimes breaking dishes in anger or making herself “ill” with stress.
Then one day, while visiting my mother’s house, our son developed a high fever. My mother immediately blamed Anita.
“How could you let him get sick?” she shouted. “You don’t know how to care for my grandson!”
And I — foolishly — agreed.
The Breaking Point
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