The Hidden Truths of Being a Server: What Every Diner Should Understand Before They Sit Down

In America, servers depend on tips to make a living. It’s not just extra — it’s essential.

If you’ve had good service, the best way to say thank you is with a meaningful tip. Even just a few dollars more can make the difference between someone feeling appreciated or completely defeated.

4. The Split-the-Bill Surprise Squad

You’ve just wrapped up a table of seven. Everyone’s eaten, drank, maybe even shared dessert. And then it begins:

“Can you split this seven ways?”
“Oh, I only had water, but she had two glasses of wine.”
“Wait, I think I paid for Sarah’s appetizer, but maybe not?”

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