The Dinner That Taught Me to Stand Up for Myself—Without Losing a Friend

We ordered drinks—water for me, wine for her.

Then came the menu. I scanned the prices: salads for $19, steaks pushing $60. I smiled and said, “I’ll just have the salad, maybe some bread too.”

“Perfect,” Mia said cheerfully. “Ribeye for me, truffle fries, asparagus—why not? We deserve this!”

We laughed and caught up on life. She told me about her big work win; I told her about saving for grad school. Still, I couldn’t shake the quiet anxiety as I did mental math between bites of lettuce.

When the check came, Mia said easily, “We’ll just split it.”

My heart dropped. Before I could speak, the waiter placed two separate checks on the table.

“Oh,” Mia said, surprised. “You didn’t have to—”

“I called earlier,” I said calmly. “Asked them to split it ahead of time. Just wanted to avoid any confusion.”

She blinked, then blushed. “You could’ve told me.”Continue reading…

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