That night could have turned into resentment or a scene. Instead, it turned into a gentle nudge toward better habits for both of us: me, speaking up early and backing my words with a simple plan; her, slowing down to truly listen.
If you’ve ever felt that tug-of-war between staying true to yourself and keeping the peace, remember this: clear expectations are kindness. They prevent confusion and preserve goodwill. And they allow both people to leave with dignity intact.