When I left for college in a different city, I thought distance would finally give my mom the freedom she deserved.
My mother, Paula, had spent most of her life pouring herself into other people. First my father, then me, then a job that chewed up her energy and called it dedication. She worked long hours as a hospital administrator, the kind of person who knew every nurse’s birthday and every patient complaint by name, and still came home to make sure the laundry was folded the “right” way.
His name was Dennis. Continue reading…