My Thanksgiving wasn’t what I’d planned.
But somewhere between the frozen pizza, the meltdown phone call, and that candlelit table at the restaurant, something shifted.
The next couple of weeks were quiet.
No surprise visits. No passive-aggressive texts.
Then one morning, while I was making school lunches, my phone buzzed.
It was a text from Elaine.
“You owe me an apology,” it said.
I stared at it for a full 10 seconds.
“Eric?” I called.
He walked into the kitchen.
I handed him the phone.
He read it, sighed, and gave me this look that said he was very, very done.
“What do you want to do?” he asked.
“I’m done,” I said.
“I don’t want to talk to her. I don’t want to see her. Not until she understands what she did and apologizes like a grown adult.”
He nodded.
“Then that’s what we’ll do,” he said.
“Already blocked her on mine,” he said.
“And if she shows up here, I’ll handle it. Not you.”
Christmas Eve rolled around.
We stayed home. Just us.
I made hot cocoa on the stove, old-school style, with real milk and cocoa powder.
I piled whipped cream on top and sprinkled a little cinnamon.
We curled up on the couch with blankets and watched “The Grinch.” The kids bickered about which version was better. The tree lights reflected in the window. It started snowing outside.
Halfway through the movie, Eric squeezed my hand.
“You know,” he said, “Mom always takes.”
I looked at him.
“And you always give,” he said.
“You give time, food, your energy, your patience. This year, you gave us Thanksgiving. She stole it.
But karma gave it right back.”
He smiled a little.
“I hate that it happened,” he said, “but I’m glad I finally saw it. For real. No more pretending she’s just ‘a little much.’”
He pulled my hand to his lips and kissed my knuckles.
“Next year,” he said, “Thanksgiving is just us.
Whatever you want. We go out, we stay in, you make a feast, we order Chinese, I don’t care. But your cooking?
Your effort? That’s only for people who deserve it.”
I leaned into him and watched our kids laugh at the TV.
This Thanksgiving, I learned something I didn’t expect.
Some people think that taking from others makes them powerful. Like if they take what you love, they win.
But nothing — and I mean nothing — tastes better than watching karma serve it back to them.
With gravy on top.
If this happened to you, what would you do?
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