If you’re reading this after a long marriage, or you’re encouraging a child or grandchild through the maze of modern dating, here’s the truth that steadies the heart: there are many good people out there. Plenty still value courtesy, conversation, and mutual respect. And when you meet them, generosity feels warm, not weighted. It opens doors; it doesn’t keep score.
So if flowers arrive with fine print, or kindness comes with conditions, wish them well—and walk away. Your peace of mind is not a bill to be itemized. It is a standard to be honored.
