My Date Picked Up the Tab—Then Sent an “Invoice”: A Modern Dating Red Flag You Shouldn’t Ignore

 

He arrived early, holding a small bouquet and wearing a crisp button-down. He opened doors, pulled out my chair, and complimented my dress without being smarmy. Even the gift he brought—a tasteful keychain with my initial—felt thoughtful rather than flashy.

Our conversation was easy. We talked travel and work, the shared comedy of terrible app experiences, and the loss of old-school movie theaters you could enjoy without taking out a small loan. When the check arrived, I reached for my wallet out of habit.

Eric waved me off. “I’ve got it,” he said, sliding his card to the waiter with a practiced flourish. Old-fashioned, perhaps, but generous. I didn’t argue.

Outside, he offered his arm, walked me to my car, and waited until my engine turned over before heading to his. No pushy invitations, no lingering awkwardness—just a clean, pleasant goodnight. Driving home, I texted Mia: You might be right about this one.

The Morning Curveball

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