She was born in 1962 in Roswell, New Mexico, into circumstances that offered little protection or certainty. Her mother was still a teenager, and the man Demi believed to be her father was not biologically related to her—a truth that would not surface until later and would quietly fracture her sense of identity. Her early years were defined by constant movement, financial stress, and emotional unpredictability. Home was never a fixed place; it was whatever space her family happened to occupy at the time.
That instability wasn’t just logistical. It was emotional. Demi grew up in a household where adult struggles bled into childhood, where addiction, depression, and unresolved trauma shaped daily life. Her stepfather wrestled with his own inner battles, and her mother’s emotional volatility left little room for a child to feel safe or anchored. Love existed, but it was inconsistent, tangled with fear and uncertainty. Continue reading…