“You don’t have to do that,” I said, trying to refuse. “You just enjoy your life with your gorgeous baby girl.”
“I want to,” she said firmly. “You deserve it.”
But I liked her. She looked strong. Not just surviving, but rising.
That new confidence began to touch everything in my life.
At first, I started posting on social media as a kind of personal journal — just small updates about recovery, motherhood, body image, and what it really felt like to reclaim your body after giving it away so many times.
I thought maybe a few women would read it. But then people started commenting. They shared the posts. They tagged friends.
I wasn’t writing from a place of bitterness. I was writing from truth. I didn’t sugarcoat anything. I talked about surrogacy. And about love that disguises itself as control.
I wrote about what it feels like to give every part of yourself to someone who turns around and says it still wasn’t enough.
Eventually, what I called my “Fit Mom Diary” became a small but powerful community. Podcasts invited me to speak with them; a few wellness brands even reached out to me. I started a support group for mothers who’d been emotionally or financially exploited in the name of family. Continue reading…
