I Spent Hours Preparing for a Baby Shower—Only to Be Uninvited the Night Before

The baby shower incident hurt at first. But now, I see it as a blessing. It opened my eyes to the difference between being needed and being valued.

I no longer waste energy on people who see me only as what I can provide. Instead, I invest in relationships where kindness is returned with gratitude, where presence matters more than contribution, and where respect is the foundation.

True friends will never uninvite you while keeping your food on the guest list. They will want you, not just what you can give.

And those are the friendships worth holding on to.