“I never imagined I’d fall for a married man,” Rebecca begins, her voice soft, heavy with remorse. “I was raised with strong values. I always believed in loyalty, in doing the right thing.”
“He told me he loved me on our second date,” she recalls. “Said he hadn’t felt that way in years. He painted his wife as distant, uneducated, unattractive. He said they were already emotionally divorced.”
It was easy to believe him. Jack seemed sincere. And when someone says they’re ready to leave a marriage for you, that they see a future with you—it can feel like fate.
Four months into her pregnancy, Rebecca believed it was time for Jack to follow through on his promises. But life took an unexpected turn that night, with a phone call she never anticipated.
A Stranger’s Voice… That Wasn’t So Strange After All
“It was around 9 p.m. when my phone rang. I didn’t recognize the number,” she says. “I picked up—and that’s when I heard her voice.”
Kate.
Jack’s wife.
Or rather, Jack’s ex-wife, though Rebecca didn’t know that yet.
Nervously, Rebecca agreed. She didn’t call Jack. She didn’t warn him. She just got in her car and drove to a nearby café.
“I wish I had told him. I wish I had prepared myself for what was coming. But curiosity won.”
Meeting the Woman I’d Been Told to Hate
“I recognized her right away,” Rebecca admits. “She was nothing like Jack had described.”
Kate was graceful. Attractive. Poised. And to Rebecca’s shock, she wasn’t alone.
Seated beside her were two children—Lily, 15, and Randall, 10. Jack’s children. Rebecca’s heart dropped.
“They greeted me like I was someone they’d known forever. Like I was just a friend of their mom’s. Not their dad’s pregnant mistress.”
She turned to her children and, in a tone of composed honesty, said: “This is Rebecca. Your dad’s mistress.”
No one flinched.
“It was surreal,” Rebecca says quietly.
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A Calm Proposal—and a Shocking Truth
Kate didn’t waste time.
She explained that she had known about Jack’s affairs for years. It wasn’t a surprise. It had been a quiet, simmering pain that she had come to tolerate—until a child was involved.
“‘Your pregnancy changes everything,’ she told me,” Rebecca recalls. “‘That’s why I reached out. I have a proposal. Don’t answer yet. Just listen.’”
But before Kate could continue, her daughter Lily interrupted.
She looked Rebecca in the eye and said, “We want to meet our baby sister.”
Rebecca froze.
“She was smiling. Genuine. Not sarcastic. Not angry. Just… open.”
Then came the second shock: Kate revealed she and Jack had already divorced—five months ago.
“I was stunned,” Rebecca says. “Jack never told me. I thought he was still figuring things out. Still planning to leave. But he already had. And he didn’t think I needed to know.”
Kate’s proposal was simple, but profound: she wanted her children to have a relationship with their new sibling. For the child to grow up knowing family—not secrets.
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