Forming a strong bond with a cat takes patience. Depending on the cat’s personality and background, it may take months—or even years—to develop a deep, trusting relationship.
The Science of Bunting
When a cat rubs against humans, other animals, or objects, it’s a form of communication. Most of the time, it’s positive, but it’s more than just affection.
Cats have scent glands on their faces, heads, and at the base of their tails. These glands release pheromones, which cats use to mark territory. By rubbing or bunting, a cat is leaving its personal scent, signaling comfort and ownership.
Rubbing is therefore both affectionate and territorial. It signals that the cat considers you—or an object—part of its environment. Since pheromones fade over time, cats regularly reapply them, which is why your cat may greet you immediately after you return home—not just to say hello, but to re-mark its territory.
Greeting, Investigation, or Concern?
Sometimes bunting is investigative. Cats may rub objects or people to explore and gather information, similar to how human babies explore with their hands and mouths. In this case, rubbing doesn’t necessarily mean affection. It’s wise to wait for additional signs before attempting to pet a newly met cat.
- Rubbing a kitchen cabinet could indicate hunger.
- Rubbing a door might signal a desire to go outside.
- Aggressive headbutts could indicate discomfort or a need for attention.
When to Consult a Veterinarian
If your cat starts rubbing or bunting aggressively, or shows other changes in behavior, consult a veterinarian. Signs of possible health issues include weight loss, vomiting, diarrhea, hair loss, appetite changes, excessive scratching, or overgrooming. Conditions like allergies, fleas, ear infections, or hypersensitivity disorder can trigger excessive rubbing.
