Most of us are familiar with the subtle, and sometimes not-so-subtle, pressures society places on individuals regarding family planning.

From the moment we enter adulthood, there is an unspoken script: get a good job, meet the right partner, marry, and eventually have children.

Those who choose a path that diverges from this traditional expectation—whether to delay parenthood, remain childfree, or pursue alternative life goals—often face intrusive questions, judgment, and unsolicited advice.

These questions can be deeply personal and, at times, emotionally taxing. They can make people feel that their private decisions are somehow open to public scrutiny.

For couples and individuals with disabilities, these pressures and judgments can be magnified.

Society frequently misjudges the capabilities of people with congenital conditions, particularly regarding their ability to raise children. Continue reading…