Kindness does not mean availability to everyone. The kindest people often learn, through experience, that not everyone deserves their time and attention.
This selectivity means they won’t always be in every group chat or invited to every party. But when they are with someone, they give their whole heart.
7. They Sometimes Attract the Wrong People
Because kind people give freely, they can become magnets for those who take advantage. They listen, support, and help without expecting much in return — and unfortunately, this generosity can attract people who drain them.
Over time, they learn to be more cautious. They don’t stop being kind, but they stop being endlessly available. This shift often reduces the size of their social circle, but it leaves them with more balanced and fulfilling connections.
8. They Prefer One-on-One Connection Over Large Groups
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