She may not tell you everything about her past, but the way she talks about her feelings is telling.
She’s emotionally literate — able to name what she feels, explain where it comes from, and set healthy boundaries without fear of pushing people away.
- She might say, “I’m feeling overwhelmed right now, and I need space to process.”
- Or, “I’m not comfortable with that kind of joke — it reminds me of something I’ve experienced.”
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