3 Colors You Should Never Wear to a Funeral: A Guide to Respectful Attire

Perhaps the most controversial color choice, bright red has strong associations with passion, celebration, and boldness. In weddings and festivals across parts of Asia, red is a joyful color. But at a funeral, it tells a very different story.

Imagine sitting in a room filled with black suits, navy dresses, and gray coats—only for one person to arrive in a vivid red jacket or dress. The eye immediately goes to that color. Instead of blending into the moment, the outfit demands attention.

In Western traditions, this can be seen as attention-seeking, distracting from the purpose of the service. Unless the family specifically requests red to symbolize life, renewal, or cultural significance, it is safest to leave this shade in the closet.

Better alternatives: Dark navy, charcoal gray, or muted earth tones all show care without appearing too harsh.

2. Neon or Vibrant Shades

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