While metallics may not be colors in the traditional sense, they are worth mentioning because of the effect they create. Gold, silver, sequins, and sparkly fabrics catch light and reflect it across a room. At a dinner party or holiday gathering, this might feel glamorous. At a funeral, however, it can feel more like a fashion statement than a gesture of respect.
Even a subtle metallic blouse, shiny handbag, or sequined scarf can shift the tone. This is not the setting for shimmer and glamour—it is a time for restraint, modesty, and compassion.
What You Should Wear Instead
So if red, neon shades, and metallics are out, what should you wear? Fortunately, the rules are straightforward, and classic styles always work well.
- Black remains the safest choice. Across many cultures, black is directly associated with respect at solemn gatherings. A simple black dress, suit, or pair of slacks is timeless.
- Navy, charcoal gray, and deep brown are equally suitable. These colors show consideration while offering options for those who prefer something other than black.
- Simple accessories are key. Modest jewelry, a plain tie, and neutral shoes all maintain the right tone.
- For women: Dresses, skirts, or tailored pantsuits in dark shades. Fabrics should be modest and matte rather than shiny or sheer.
- For men: A dark suit, button-down shirt, and conservative tie. Even if you don’t own a suit, slacks with a collared shirt in muted colors can work.
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